mallige, sorry to hear about your father.
lovely pics of khotte, thanks for sharing!
the vaal in my pic upthread was labeled as 'vaal' in desi store, methinks it is 'butter beans' available in b'bay. it looks and tasted like lima beans, though. i remember it had tougher skin than the butter beans i had in b'bay decades ago. hibiscus, are these still available in b'bay?
i must try the avare in mallige's pics, been a while since i had some, i end up making freah frozen toor bendi whenever we crave for bendi.
as for the masolu, my mom used to make both with and w/o coconut - both had different taste, if there was a coconut based dish bendi was usually w/o coconut.
matilda, the table format sounds interesting, pliss to share if you don't mind

i have to lookup rasachandrika or shenoy's ckbks everytime i make any masolu
it was interesting to watch how the masolus were ground in our village temple by the randpis(cooks) for festivities: one huge batch was ground in a huge ragado, then a portion was taken off for sukke, rest was ground further and a portion for ambat when it reached ambat consistency, some for chutney, kochcholi, and rest ground further for bendi. if any of the above needed other spices, they were put back in the now empty(unwashed) ragado and ground further in batches.